- Have to walk miles to get water for your family’s daily needs.
- Get food from the UN to feed your family for a month.
- Live under a tarp while you gather materials to build a home.
- Wake in the night with nightmares of things you saw on your escape from war.
- Wonder where members of your family are and if you will ever see them again.
- Ask others if they have seen your parents/children.
- Join another family since you lost yours.
- Question if your children/parents made it out alive.
- Hope to find them someday.
- Picked up unaccompanied kids while on the run.
- Don’t know where to go with your own family plus the many kids you gathered along the way.
- Arrived in a refugee camp, stunned, afraid, and without basic supplies.
- Build a hut for your family to live in from mud, sticks and grass.
- Cook all your food over an open fire, despite the temperature outside being in the 90s and 100s.
- Send your children to collect firewood every day so you can cook.
- Sweep the dirt floors around your home to make them neat, but have trash surrounding your plot of land because there is no trash pick-up.
- Walk to the borehole with a big tub on your head full of dirty laundry.
- Wash your laundry at the borehole using the tub, water and soap.
- Load your wet laundry on your head to walk home.
- Hang your laundry on the line to dry, if it doesn’t rain.
- Carry long branches on your head.
- Carry bags of vegetables on your head.
- Carry cans of water on your head.
- Walk everywhere you go, with things on your head
- Strap your baby on your back so you can have hands free to load things onto your head.
- Chop dirt up with tools.
- Make bricks from dirt and water so you can build a house.
- Fire the bricks by burning them until they are dry.
- Make more bricks to sell.
- Chop up dirt to plant crops.
- Take care of your garden.
- Pray for rain.
- Reap what didn’t die from lack of rain.
- Load a bicycle with your crops, if you are lucky enough to have one.
- Ride your bike with your crops, your wife with your baby on her back and a bag on her head behind you, and your young child in front of you, hours away to sell crops.
- Ride your bike back with your family and the things you bought at market with the money you made.
- Sell whatever you have to pay your children’s school fees so they can be educated.
- Look for jobs, but find none because you aren’t educated.
- Sit and despair at your plight and the hopelessness you feel.
- Gather and sit with other men who are also hopeless.
- Numb your despair with alcohol when you can find some.
- Sit and wait to go home to a country you do not recognize any more.
- Wonder if you will ever get to go home.
- Wonder what will become of your children.
- Wonder…