Happy Halloween.  I hope everyone had a safe and fun one.  We had this great idea...Bill was going to wear my wig and one of my fleece tops and be me.  I got the idea when he came out of the bathroom one day in my wig.  I laughed so hard my sides hurt. I decided that I was going to be Uncle Fester.  Without my wig I look alot like him...just add the lightbulb in my mouth and I am set.  Of course, when it came time to go we both chickened out and went as ourselves but it was fun to laugh about the possibilities...

Taking good health for granted is something I have always done, I am sure.  But now, I know that I really should appreciate this body of mine…even if I don’t like the shape it is in.  I went to work out today at Curves.  That is the first time in awhile because of my infection.  It was hard and I got tired easily.  I didn’t even really push very hard. ( I know better.)  However, even in my weakened state I could do more today than last time I went.  My incision is healed (praise God in heaven!) and my surgery weakness is much, much better than before.

 I was told by my doctors, that the exercise will help flush the chemo out faster and put me on the right track to recovery.  That is more motivating to me than simply losing weight.  I have a new perspective on trying to be healthy so I can live longer.  It isn’t about the way I look anymore…I mean I am bald and my stomach looks like Frankenstein…not that improving my body is a bad thing…just not as important as making sure I am breathing and my heart is pumping.  Moving my joints is another good goal.

 I am also trying to remember to be thankful to God for my health, such that it is.  There is a new definition of pain and suffering that I watch around me at chemo each time.  I have it sooooo much better than so many.  I don’t want to forget that…I am grateful today for the ability to move and feel decent.  It is the grace of God and I will pray diligently for those that have it worse than I because I can’t even imagine what it must be like.  My compassion has blossomed like never before and I am moved to pray.

At our church we have “blended” worship.  That means that we sing old hymns and newer praise choruses.  Many times they are blended into one song.  Today it was All Hail the Power of Jesus Name and Lord of All.  Both hit me in a powerful way.  I was reminded that angels fall prostrate at the name of Jesus because he is crowned Lord of All.  That means Lord of our country, and the election next week.  That means, Lord of our schools and our homes.  He is Lord of the church. 

It does not matter if we agree that he is Lord…he just is.  We may not be able to see his Lordship in the politics of our country but that is of no consequence to him.  He is Lord even when things don’t make sense to us…like when you have cancer.  He is Lord over my cells, my chemo, my infections and my hair loss.  I do not see with his eyes, so to me it is difficult to understand these things.  After all his ways are not my ways.  Ultimately, I will be glad of that…when I can see his ways clearly.  Until then trust is the order of the day.  Can I trust his ways?  Can I let him be Lord over ALL that comes into my life?  Can you?  All Hail the Power of Jesus Name...

A day in the mountains...the leaves are beautiful. They are peaking this weekend. I am better today than yesterday.  I saw a soccer game in the cold morning air, with many layers and blankets.  I went to Neal's Gap and bought a hat to sleep in that another survivor told me about.  It is a very soft fleece that she says keeps your head warm.  I believe it.  I love it already.  The view from up there was amazing, but a bit windy. I went to a Sunday School party and had some social time.  It was a good day.

Today was a great day to sleep til noon...so I did.  I took some pain medicine last night and slept great so this morning as I awoke sore I took some more and went back to bed.  Then after lunch I took another nap.  Tiredness is now more of an issue than the pain...thank goodness.  I think the bone pain went by faster this time because of my massage and your prayers!  I am just resting around the house...reading, writing, sleeping.  Simple things.  For now that is all I can do.  But I think I am past the worst this round and that is a good thing.

I have felt yucky today.  The bone pain is back and my stomach is unhappy.  I feel weak and tired...so I slept.  Most of the day.  I went for a massage...that was great and seemed to help.  I went to the store.  We were desparate for some basic food...then home to sleep.  I didn't really do anything else.  I ran kids here and there while Bill took Peter to the doctor...sinus infection.  I am staying away from him.  It is hard to sit back and watch my son feel bad and not be near him.  It is, in my opinion, one of the joys of motherhood to bring comfort to a sick child.  I miss the closeness of snuggling up and napping with him.  It is one of the few times my kids will still let me nurture them a bit.  However, it is only temporary.  I will be able to be a mom again soon because I am over half way! 

I have an answer to my question.  I told you I would let you know the answer. It is the question I asked during my infection, you remember…why?  Why this?  Why another complication?  All of those wonderful things that come into your head in the midst of an unbelievably difficult time when you cannot see the end of the tunnel ahead.  I had some time to talk with God.  I heard his answer and it was no surprise to me.  I have heard it before.  “For my Glory.” 

Now I don’t know about you, but that just isn’t what I am looking for in an answer.  It is way too vague and I do not really even know that I agree with it.  I mean wouldn’t it be more glorious to him if I just got completely healed without all the drugs?  That way he would get all the credit.  I told him all of this in my time of infection…I was quite heated in my rationale.  He patiently listened to me rant and rave I am sure.  Then he repeated himself, “for my glory.”  I hate it when he does that, because that means he wants me to dig a bit.  I have to think it through and ask again what exactly that means, then I have to listen for the answer.  It would be so much easier if I could tell him how things should be. 🙂 

I think “for my glory’ could mean many different things.  It could be that my testimony will point people around me, like you guys who read this, to him.  I hope that is true.  It could be that in my weakness his strength will be evident not only to those around me but also to me.  I think this is closer to what he means.  It is my journey after all.  At my absolute end, I find that I can go further than I have ever thought.  I can endure because of his great love for me.  When I have nothing but tears, he still holds me close.  It is actually a very intimate, private thing to have nothing to offer him.  Only myself in my broken state…but that is all he wants.  That is what he means “for my glory.”  In that deep place of brokenness, he is more alive and real…more glorious than any other time.  I am assured by his heavy presence that he knows all and he is in all.  He is drawing me closer to himself in a way that only this kind of experience can do.  He has done this before with me.  It is back to my secret place where I have nothing…but him…and his glory!

Today it is an okay day.  I feel pretty good.  I have tingling feet and hands.  My face feels sunburned.  My mouth is getting sores.  All of these are mild and manageable.  Tonight I am starting to feel tired but no soreness yet.  Tomorrow I go to get my white count shot...so soreness will come one way or another.  I am taking it slow this week, trying to keep rested and avoid infections. 

I have been inspired to start outlining my book.  I read a book by Emilee Barnes and her survival of cancer.  It was really good and made me realize that I have alot to say.  I am thinking and planning.  I don't know how long before I get it done but I am going to start.  Many of these blogs are my thoughts and will be put into more defined chapter type writings. 

Last weekend was homecoming.  It is good to see my kids going on through life even as I have to take things slow.  It keeps me going forward.  Hannah went with her boyfriend and 3 other couples.  Aaron went alone and said he had more fun than last year when he had a date!  I am trying to put some of the pictures in my album...so far they seem to be too big to download. (I consider the life of my kids part of my journey too.) If I get them on you will be amazed at how much Hannah looks like I did at her age!

Today was my chemo. day.  I have had several people that said I was heavy on their hearts and that they stopped what they were doing to pray...I know that is why things went so smoothly.  They got my port with very little trouble.  They had to use a long needle but they numbed me first with an ice pack.  They stuck me once and only had to dig a little deeper twice before they hit it right on.  Once it was taped down there were no more problems!!  Thank God for that!  I always feel yucky when they pump the meds in so that was nothing new.  I mainly tried to sleep to avoid that gross feeling.  When we got home Bill's mom had prepared a wonderful home cooked meal so I wouldn't have to worry about dinner.  It was great because right now I still have an appetite...so I ate it all.  I had to have a little shot of inculin first because my sugar was up to 198...that is better than previous times where it was 256.  Bill did a great job and I didn't even feel it. All in all it was a fairly routine chemo day if there is such a thing.  Thanks for all the prayers and concerns...now to avoid infections for the next three weeks!  My white count shot is Wednesday then the bone pain comes right after.  It appears to have worked last time since my white count is in the low normal range now.  My red count went up on it's own...so no shots needed.  I hate to admit it but I think the extra week did me good :)  I guess that is why I am not God! 

I AM HALF WAY!!!!  THAT IS A MILESTONE...ONLY THREE MORE TIMES....

Today I woke up and noticed colored light painting my kitchen table as the sun was coming up.  I looked out the window for the source of the light and found it was the trees in the yard.  Multiple colors of leaves were glowing as the beams from dawn streamed through them.  It was a beautiful sight.  All across the back of the house the effect was the same…stained glass.  That is what is looked like, a house full of stained glass windows.  My kitchen, dining, bed, and bathrooms all glowing like a house of worship. 

I think we believe that churches and chapels are the only places for worship.  Therefore, the majority of stained glass is there, in those sacred places.  We ooooh and ahhh at the beauty and artistry of colored bits of glass as they depict holy scenes.  They draw us somehow to acknowledge our creator and marvel at the scenes in wonder. They move us to reverence for God.  Those windows somehow display his glory.

 But what if my own house is a place meant for worship as well?  What if the scenes of my life are the scenes meant to inspire others towards him?  My morning light show really brought my attention to the fact that I live in a house of worship.  The everyday rooms in my house are places the Spirit of God chooses to dwell and my daily activities are my acts of worship.  When I look at that fact, I am honored that he would choose my house.  I am humbled that he would choose my heart in which to dwell. 

As I look around me at the leaves and the color, I am again taken by his magnificent creation.  The forest is his palate today…so is my kitchen…and my heart.  He is using his paintbrush to teach, inspire, and glorify.  If I do not praise him, the rocks will cry out…and the trees.